Thursday, November 6, 2008

Loss For Words

Please give me some time to give you a thorough update as we have been inundated with calls and doctors and information. We love all of you and we can't wait to celebrate Gary's birthday with you as well.

Gary has been in the hospital since Tuesday. I can't believe I have to tell you this. Our eyes are swollen and heavy from crying all day as we found out that Gary's cancer is out of control and we basically have no viable options other than Hospice.
I want to explain everything to you but my mind is not clear and I want to wait until it is so that I can give you accurate information.

THE BOYS DO NOT KNOW so please do not tell your children. The boys are our 1st concern and we will tell them in our own time and I will let you know when we do so it will be safe to tell your children. We do not want them hearing this information from anyone but Gary and me.

Please pray for our family as we transition into this most difficult time. If we need anything believe me we will ask. I know everyone wants to get involved and help but we need some time to digest this and figure some things out. Like I said, we love you all and we appreciate your support an prayers and love.

All our love,
Lisa & Gary

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am also at a loss for words. We'll continue to pray for Gary's comfort. We'll also pray for the Lord to hold your hands (if not, carry you) through all this. Gary has traveled so long and so far on this journey and we couldn't be more proud. Please let me know if we can do anything for you. In the meantime, we look forward to celebrating Gary's birthday on Sunday!!

xoxo,
Jenn, Rob, Cole and Tressa

PS - I have not told the kids anything yet, but I know they miss the boys and look forward to seeing you all.

Anonymous said...

Lisa
Words cannot describe my sadness.
My prayers are with your family.
Kelly Migoya

Anonymous said...

Dear Lisa,

My heart aches for you, Gary and the boys. I get updates from Jenn and I think of you often. Stay strong (even though I know that is a lot easier said than done). I know there are no words at a time like this...Just take comfort knowing that you and your family are loved by so many.

Missi Peper & family

okfarris said...

Lisa I know we don't really know each other but I feel like I know you through this blog and Aunt Marj and Uncle Lee. I thank God Gary has you and you all are in our prayers. Please tell Gary thank you for me. When I first moved to CA I was one confused 18 year old. He was there for me like a brother. I have never forgotten but I have also never said thank you. I love you all and pray for you constantly. I wish there was some thing I could do. God is in control.

All my love
Amy Farris
your Oklahoma cousin

Anonymous said...

Hi Lis,
I'm typing strength to you right now. I'm sending you a Big Hug and a powerful blessing for you and your family. We are praying for Gary to have peace and comfort.
Fried Twinkies are only a phone call away!
Love,
Suzy, Brian, Jack and Ali

Anonymous said...

Dear Sallee Family- Your journey has been an open testimony to others on how to love and allow others to love you. It has poured out to the community on how important it is to need others and let them in. Your Faith as well another testimony on how important to have a God centered family and love, may God continue to comfort you through His word, strength and people, give you strength and courage as you continue forward. May you seek refuge in His strength and each other and continue to let others in to help and support you. It has been a privilege to be able to be allowed into your personal lives through your blog. May your days be Blessed continually, In His Love, The Clinkenbeards

bsmanning said...

Lisa:

I'm very saddened by the news as Liz told me this evening. You must be speechless. I am praying for God's wisdom and discernment to be shown to you and Gary in this time of decision. May God's love for you, Gary and the boys cover you with peace. If we can help, let us know. We are with you tonight.

In Him,

Scott