Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Some things to know for tomorrow...

The Memorial Service will begin at 1:00 p.m.

Presbyterian Church Of The Master
26051 Marguerite Pkwy.
Mission Viejo, CA 92692

Childcare will be provided for any small children during the service.

Parking is limited; however there is plenty of parking across the street in the Pavilion shopping center. We ask that you please be respectful of business owners and do not park directly in front of their doors.

Due to time constraints at the church pre-school, the Sallee family will be unable to talk with you before or after the memorial service. The family looks forward to seeing and speaking with everyone at the reception following the service located at the Tijeras Creek Golf Club.

Reception
Tijeras Creek Golf Club
29082 Tijeras Creek
Rancho Santa Margarita
Tel: 949-589-9793

Sallee Family Donations
For anyone wanting to make a donation to the Sallee family, please send it to the following address:

Mountain View Church
P.O. Box 2058
Mission Viejo, CA 92692

Checks should be made payable to "Mountain View" referencing the "Sallee Family Fund" to ensure donations will be applied directly to the family.

The Sallee family would like to extend their warmest thanks to everyone for helping them through this most difficult time.

Michele Merk

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Dear Lisa, we met only a couple of times thru Stacy but yet I needed to express my sincere condolences for your loss. I have followed your blog and have cried so many times and have even laughed a little also( the plastic flowers was awesome) Gary fought a long tough battle with you(and the Lord) along side of him the entire way. Now it is his turn, to stand beside you and the boys tomorrow as you go through a tough day tomorrow. You are in my heart and prayers.God Bless you, the boys and the entire Sallee Family

Christy said...

Lisa, Nate, Zach & Jax -

Jeff and I are so incredibly sorry for the loss of Gary. I know that he lives on in your hearts & the memories that you all shared together. He will be with each of you every step of your lives.

I have tried to make arrangements to come today, but I am unable to - I want you to know that I really want to be there to show you my support.

You will all by in my heart and prayers every day - especially today.

We will be sending you a donation for the fund - but please if there's anything we can do for you, the boys and even Hobie - please let us know!

You are loved by so many people - internationally - and I know that even through the loss of Gary - you will never be alone with the love of so many.

I hope to see you soon!

Jeff & Christy Howell
(The Merks' neighbours)

Jackie Andersen said...

Lisa,
Although I was at Gary's beautiful memorial today, I did not get the opportunity to personally hug you and let you know how much I have thought of you and your journey through such a painful time.

I was there with Ron, Sam, Maddy and Gavin today - but as we were in in line Maddy and Gavin got armpit deep in the fountain at Tijeras Creek and I went to "solve" that situation. When I returned Ron and Same were through the line and you were onto next in a long line of well wishers. A similar thing happened on the way out. My role turned into that of ensuring Ron and Sam could spend time with you, family, your home group and and extended family without having to worry about the kids - the sad result was I was unable to "personally" extend my love and hugs to you. Consider yourself hugged.

I am available for whatever you need. Having helped my Mom through her grief when we lost my step-dad who raised me - I am so aware of "moments" to come when in the middle of an ordinary day when your "forget for just a fraction of a second" and turn to talk to Gary or call him. I get that. I know your support system is strong but be it a weeks from now or months from now - I can be there for you if you need anything. You will continue to be in my prayers.

Much love to you and the boys and a special scratch on the noggin to Hobie ( they feel grief and loss too)

Jackie (Sam has my number and feel free to use it)

Tucker Family said...

You are pretty close to the most selfless person I've known. Jake told me that you told him to call you if he needs anything once we move. I can't believe you have the time or energy to worry about anyone else besides yourself and your boys. Your generousity has touched our whole family.

Thank you for sharing your journey with us. You are an inspiration and a true example of faith. We will continue to lift you and the boys in prayer. Don't be afraid to call Jake if you need anything. He can be a great babysitter, a music teacher, a baseball fan...